Discussion in 'Ask Aunt Jenny' started by Carole, Nov 1, 2015.
Dear Aunt Jenny,
Is it better to marry a man you love or a man who loves you? --Carole
My, that's an easy one. It's better to marry a man you love. If you can do this, you'll have a pleasurable life more wonderful than you can get any other way.
The problem is in the words, "if you can". Just because you want someone doesn't mean they're going to want you, and if he's just not interested, there's not much you can do. I've spent half my life pining after a man who won't talk to me (although he does think about me from time to time -- I'm sure he does).
If you can't do that, there's always marrying a man who loves you -- much more workable. If you don't mess things up, you will have a lifetime of someone who cares about you and makes sure your needs are met.
So it's a choice between the not-so-likely better alternative or the sure bet alternative that's not so great. Best yet, find someone you love at lot who loves you a lot. Fortunately, it often works out this way -- although how it does I've never been able to figure out.
With hugs, Aunt Jenny
Aunt Jenny, you didn't mention any real "rules" for this subforum so I'm not sure whether I may chip in my two cents' worth here, or not.
Of course, if Carole would rather not hear my $0.02, that would make any rules a moot point, at least in this thread.
Why Out Toe, dear, of course you can chip in. What else is a forum for if not to discuss things? I know I'm not perfect, so if you have a different idea I'd be glad to hear it. Even if everybody gangs up on me and tells me I'm wrong that's okay -- because, while this is not exactly a democracy, the more people speak up the better an answer we're going to end up with. So you go right ahead, Out Toe, and post.
With hugs, Aunt Jenny
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